As we witness a war against Israel’s existence, over 200 hostages in Hamas’ hands, anti-Semitism rising to a level beyond comprehension through the United States and world, Palestinians whose terrorist leaders intentionally use them as pawns to be sacrificed, and world opinion switching from “of course Israel must protect herself against terrorist” to believing Israel should stop protecting its people matched with a deafening silence regarding any statement for Hamas to release the hostages.
Even when Hamas leaders make public statements that they will not end their terrorist activities until Israel no longer exists. Even when Hamas and other terrorist groups encourage the murder of Jews around the world. Even when the IDF gives hours – and sometimes days – warning to innocent civilians to leave an area they are preparing to take out because it’s a Hamas operative; sharing military plans in a way which can be used against them. Even when Hamas tells/makes people in Gaza stay after the IDF implores them to leave.
Even, even, even… Israel somehow is responsible for everything happening. No one seems to care about facts or nuance.
The is a great case to be made to crawl in bed, pull the covers over my head, and wait for/pray for all of these horrors to pass. But each one of us is called to do more – especially right now.
None of us can “fix” this. But we each can choose to try to make a difference.
1. Everyone can advocate. Research and share facts on social media and incorporate them in respectful conversations with others who want to understand more, are struggling with dueling narratives they are hearing, etc.
2. Don’t waste time or effort engaging in online arguments with someone who is pushing lies – there is a slim chance you will change their or any of their followers minds. And in today’s world you could also become a target for online hate.
3. Reach out to elected leaders to ensure they have facts, to ask for their support of Israel, to ask them to support increased security funding for religious organizations, and to thank them when they make any of these types of efforts.
4. Donate to organizations supporting Israel in her time in need. Jewish Federations, American Jewish Committee, Anti-Defamation League, Magen David Adom, are among the top ones I think about – there are more, just be sure you do your research to ensure it is a reputable 501C3.
5. Get to know people outside your inner circle. Have respectful conversations with those who don’t look, love, and/pray as you do (or don’t).
6. Don’t stereotype or assume the worst about someone because of their immutable characteristics (race, religion, nationality, gender, gender identity, sexual orientation, age and/or disability). Get to know THAT person – not some assumption you might have of them.
7. Use your voice to stand up and speak out for others who are targeted with hateful words or actions. We must be allies for others in the way we want others to be our allies.
AND. Keep living and trying to find moments of joy whenever, wherever and with whomever you can.
Over the last few weeks I have been overwhelmingly drawn to speaking with and seeing family members and longtime friends. I find these conversations and, when possible, being in each other’s presence, incredibly comforting.
We learn from Rabbi Tarfon in Pirkei Avot – The responsibility is not ours to complete, but neither may we withdraw from it.
Advocate. Donate. Live life.
Am Yisrael Hai!
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